Blog #3: Group work skills

When it comes to group dynamics, I tend to be "that girl" that people come to with issues, questions, problems, etc. The group looks to me to make decisions, settle disputes, and take charge when needed. In other words, I'm basically the mom of the group which is why I have taken on the role of "harmonizor" for our group. The harmonizor looks out for everyone and makes it their duty to make sure people are getting along and working together to get the work done. These characteristics and motherly like instincts remind me of none other than the fairy godmother from Cinderella. Right when Cinderella feels there is no hope left, in swoops the fairy godmother to save the day. She watches over Cinderella, comforts her when she is upset, and turns her into a beautiful princess so she can live happily ever after. Much like the fairy godmother I oversee the group, make sure that everyone is happy, and unify everyone in order to get the work done so that we can all, like Cinderella, live happily ever after.

Similar to being the mother of the group, I tend to also take on a leadership role when it comes to working in groups. The two go somewhat hand-in-hand, you could say, since a mother typically is the leader of the household. Nonetheless, I like to be in control of the situation. From assigning roles to other members in the group to keeping things organized, being a leader is one of my strongest skills. Two roles that suit these characteristics are the "orienter/ summarizer" and the "coordinator". One leader I feel portrays these skills and characteristics is Jesus. Jesus is the leader of the twelve disciples and they all look to him for both direction and advice. He tells them what to do in a way that is not controlling and/or bossy and in turn, they respect him. Like Jesus, I lead with regard to other people and their feelings rather than aimlessly demanding them to do "this" and "that".